If you’re exhausted despite doing everything right, the problem may not be your schedule or your self-care. It may be that the cost of what you do has never been fully seen. Here’s the holiday that helped me name it, and what I now call Complete Witnessing.
Read MoreWhen was the last time someone got your words exactly right and still didn't understand you at all? It happened to a woman on a very public stage last month, and watching it, I recognized the exact thing I hear from my clients every week.
Read MoreThere's a kind of tired that no amount of rest fixes, because it was never about your schedule. This week I'm sharing the childhood pattern I’ve found underneath it, and the moment I finally understood the reason I never felt enough.
Read MoreThere's a kind of exhaustion that doesn't show up as burnout at first. It shows up as a body that's been holding a position no one's clapping for. This week I wrote about what it means to be a defender in a world built for offense.
Read MoreYou know how to read a room before anyone speaks. You fix things so fast, no one ever sees there was a problem. The thing is, that's not just a strength. It’s part of a pattern, and it might be the real reason you're so tired.
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