As a pastor's daughter, I was the “good girl” growing up, where I unknowingly strengthened the people-pleasing part of myself. This continued into my adult life, taking on the role of “the glue” that kept my family and home humming along.
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We’re at a crossroads, right now.
You could decide to do nothing differently, going along to get along.
And there’s NOTHING wrong with that choice. Truly, I mean that.
Sometimes it’s not the right time to change your approach.
You heard it before... "You just need to say NO". But, it just doesn't sit well with you. You've tried, and yet, you're still struggling with your "no muscle". There's a good reason why, and once you understand it, saying NO will become a simpler option for you. I promise.
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For those of us who are achievement driven, working on the next project and checking off the boxes feels sooo good! But, even with all the checking and the accomplishments, sometimes it just doesn't feel enough, does it? Like you've got to keep earning your keep or proving your worth. So, how DO you know when ENOUGH IS ENOUGH?
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Maybe you feel like those “wine” sessions with friends, as fun as they are, feel a bit empty… only leading to complaining, and never to solutions.
Lately, I’ve been thinking about how much better we are when we have a safe space to share, hear honest and perhaps different perspectives, and make the time to adjust our approach.
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